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MY EXPERIENCE | MY EXPERTISE

Category: Leadership and Management

  • Position | To Fear Or To Respect

    Position | To Fear Or To Respect

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    Some of us are afraid when dealing with people based on their title or level in the organization. We fear people in position and hold back what we want to say. While respect should be given, fear and hesitation should be avoided. But, why do we always look at the title? Why are we also after the title? What does it tell about us?

    It’s natural for people to be curious about the titles and positions of others, as these aspects often carry status, authority, and influence. In hierarchical organizations, titles can denote responsibility, expertise, and sometimes even privilege. However, our tendency to focus on titles can also reflect deeper societal norms and ingrained perceptions about power and status.

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    The emphasis on titles may stem from a desire to understand an individual’s role within an organization and to gauge their level of influence or decision-making authority. This can help provide context for interactions and guide our behavior in professional settings.

    Additionally, the pursuit of titles can be linked to our own aspirations and ambitions. Many individuals strive for career advancement and the acquisition of prestigious titles, viewing them as markers of personal and professional achievement. As a result, the focus on titles may be a reflection of our own goals and aspirations, as well as our perceptions of success and recognition.

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    The position from contributions

    It’s important to recognize that a person’s value and contributions extend beyond their title or position. True respect and meaningful connections are fostered by understanding the individual behind the title and acknowledging their unique talents, experiences, and perspectives.

    While titles can provide valuable context, it’s crucial to approach individuals with an open mind and a genuine desire to understand and collaborate, rather than allowing titles to instill fear or create unnecessary barriers in our interactions.

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    In the corporate world, the levels of position in the organization are defined but sometimes overlap with each other. Functions and roles are created to ensure that certain responsibilities and accountabilities are clear ensuring that the business moves toward its goals.

    But sometimes, even with clear roles, others perform better, think better, and execute the task with the mindset of someone higher than their ranks. And still, even if they know they can do the job, they are hesitant to say what is on their minds.

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    Being fearful of people with a position

    The workplace hierarchy can often dictate how individuals interact with one another. It’s not uncommon for people to hold back their opinions or ideas out of fear of disrespecting those in higher positions. This could also stem from a sense of respect, leading them to defer to the higher-ups when it comes to decision-making.

    Interestingly, my nearly two decades of professional experience have brought me into contact with individuals who held senior positions without possessing the necessary skills or experience for the role. In such cases, there were often more qualified individuals who could have fulfilled those roles more effectively. Naturally, it can be challenging to respect those individuals when their inadequacy is evident.

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    The dynamics of respect, authority, and competency in the workplace can certainly lead to complex and thought-provoking situations.

    Speak with respect

    While disrespect should not happen to those who are higher than you, it is still imperative to speak your mind. In a meeting, always ask questions to understand those higher than you. Do not disagree immediately. Understand first then, say what you are thinking. If they take offense, then they are not the leader worth following. If they showed that their ego had bruised, then they are selfish. But, if they listened to you and took what you’ve said, then, you got a mentor.

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    I always say that the title we have in our organization only tells about two things – experience and level or responsibility. Many people are so focused on getting promoted and getting titles and money without really understanding what it means. It is just a title. That’s all. My experience in my field may be extensive but that doesn’t mean I know everything. My team reminds me of that every day.

    In any organization, a culture of continuous improvement and open communication is vital. As a leader, it’s crucial to encourage team members to express their thoughts and ideas openly, fostering a culture of trust and collaboration. Open dialogue and the ability to learn from each other irrespective of hierarchical positions contribute to a more dynamic and successful work environment. Respect and understanding should flow in all directions, irrespective of title or position. Each member of the team brings valuable insights, and leaders who recognize this create an environment where everyone can thrive and contribute to the collective success.

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    The position to do more

    The essence of personal and professional growth lies in embracing a mindset of continuous improvement. Regardless of your current position or level, it’s crucial to remain focused on your abilities and strive to exceed expectations, day after day. While I take pride in my professional accomplishments and the recognition they have brought, it’s essential to acknowledge that ascending the corporate ladder should not be the ultimate aim.

    Instead, directing your energy towards consistently meeting and surpassing your responsibilities is paramount. By consistently demonstrating commitment and going the extra mile in your endeavors, you pave the way for advancement and success. Remember, it’s the daily dedication to delivering beyond what is expected that propels you toward new opportunities and achievements.

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    It’s important to emphasize that personal and professional growth is not solely measured by external markers of success, such as promotions or titles, but also by your internal development and fulfillment in the work you do. Striving for continuous improvement creates a positive cycle of growth, learning, and self-fulfillment. As you take on challenges and seek opportunities to stretch your skills, you not only enhance your capabilities but also contribute to the overall success of your team and organization.

    In conclusion, the essence of personal and professional growth is deeply rooted in maintaining a mindset of continuous improvement, focusing on internal development, and consistently exceeding expectations through dedication and commitment. By embracing this philosophy, you pave the way for not only your own advancement but also for the betterment of the broader professional community.

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  • Employees | The True Reason Of Success

    Employees | The True Reason Of Success

    Every article that we read commemorates how leaders of an organization made it successful. Awards, recognitions, and bigger benefits are given to those who have shown exemplary performance in making any company or business a success. Of course, it could also be the other way around but that is not our topic in this blog.

    When a strike happens, the business halts. When employees do not come to work, productivity and efficiency are affected. Customers complaining about services or products are always fixed by those who are actually providing them. While leaders give directions and inspire to motivate, it is up to those at the bottom of the hierarchy to carry it out.

    So, why are they often ignored? Why overwork them? Why are they treated as machines? And, behind of all the facade of the so-called taking care of employees, why are they still replaceable?

    Employees face customers and clients

    When I was a customer service representative for tech support, there was this one time when the customer’s concern was beyond my expertise, let alone access and authority, to fix his problem. I had to look for a level 2 representative who was more experienced and had access and authority to provide help. I was able to find out, but he did not allow me to transfer the call to him; instead, he just told me to tell the customer that we could not do anything about it. I cannot remember the exact issue however, I felt that I was left alone to deal with something that I could not fix. Well, you could have imagined what transpired in the call – the customer was angry and I think we just ended the call with him being disappointed.

    At a famous coffee shop, I am not saying the name but probably you and I go there often or at least once a week, the barista refused to give me straw saying it is a city ordinance. It must be a drive for a green city, to be environmentally friendly. The barista also asked that if I had it to go, she would give me the straw but couldn’t stay in the coffee shop premises and I had to leave. Well, I had my coffee there without the straw. It was manageable but still, there was this lingering irritability in my head of her refusing to give me what I wanted.

    These are just two stories among the many that we may have all encountered. We get pissed at those providing us service and not to whoever manages or leads them. As employees, all of us must have experienced this. We face the customers. We face the clients. The resolution lies in our hands. The service is what we provide. While there would be guidelines on how to do it, and training on processes, at the end of the day, it is the front liners that represent the company. Whenever something goes wrong, it is the employee who provided the service, who faced the client, is often blamed.

    In reverse, when everything goes right, it is good leadership.

    Employees are directed and managed to perform

    While it is the employees that make things happen, the goals, objectives, and how to achieve it come from the leadership. Whoever is at helm of the an organization directs everyone towards accomplishing the company’s goals. At the same time, it is also the responsibility of those at the top to ensure that those performing the work are equipped, trained, and taken care of.

    So, considering the above, all of these are actions directed as input to the workers. Just like a machine or planting. Whatever is the input to a manufacturing machine will be the output of that machine. Whatever you sow, you reap. However, if all of the directions did not work, the one at fault would be the employee.

    If the process is not followed, something is wrong with the employee. Of course, they are the ones doing the work following necessary steps and the outcome of that process is not the desired result, then, it must be how it was done by the employee.

    Employees and Employers must work together

    To sum all of these, while the employees make things happen for the company, it cannot be done without proper guidance. Leadership is a great skill to drive a company towards achieving its goals. But even the greatest leaders fail when employees do something else.

    Employees are the front line of the business. Customers engage with the employees and decides to do business based on the interaction they get. If employees are not taken care of, even the greatest, highest performing employee will lose the motivation to do the job that the customers and clients deserve.

    Wouldn’t it be right to give the most benefits and rewards to the front lines and not the ones leading the charge? In effect, would that make everyone stay in the front lines and refuse to be promoted? Well, I have different reasons but I’d rather stay where am I now where I can deliver the most impact.

  • Tell Your Team Why | Let Them Figure It Out

    Tell Your Team Why | Let Them Figure It Out

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    Why Not Let Employees Figure Out the How: A Game-Changing Leadership Strategy

    In a world where results matter more than ever, understanding the key to unlocking your team’s potential can be the difference between success and failure. Too often, leaders focus on micromanaging every aspect of their team’s work, believing this approach will lead to better results. But what if I told you that letting employees know the “why” and allowing them to figure out the “how” could be the most effective strategy?

    Imagine this: You are part of a team where the leader trusts you to come up with solutions. You’re not just following orders; you’re actively engaged in finding the best way to achieve the goals. This level of autonomy can lead to innovative ideas, higher motivation, and better overall performance. In this blog, we’ll explore why this approach works and how it can transform your leadership style.

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    Why Knowing the “Why” Matters

    When employees understand the purpose behind their tasks, they are more likely to be motivated and committed. They see the bigger picture and how their work contributes to the organization’s success. This sense of purpose is a powerful driver of engagement and productivity.

    For instance, a study by Harvard Business Review found that employees who feel a sense of purpose at work are more productive and satisfied with their jobs. They are not just working for a paycheck; they are working towards something meaningful. This sense of purpose can be a game-changer in terms of employee engagement and retention.

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    Empowering Employees with the “How”

    Now, let’s talk about the “how.” When leaders allow their team members to figure out the best way to achieve the objectives, it empowers them to take ownership of their work. This empowerment leads to increased creativity and innovation. Employees are more likely to come up with new and better ways of doing things when they are given the freedom to experiment and take risks.

    Research by the University of Warwick found that empowered employees are 12% more productive than those who are not. This boost in productivity can translate into significant benefits for the organization. Empowered employees are also more likely to feel satisfied with their work and stay with the company longer.

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    The Benefits of Autonomy

    Giving employees the freedom to determine the “how” can lead to a more engaged and motivated workforce. When people feel trusted and valued, they are more likely to put in the extra effort to achieve great results. This trust can foster a positive work environment where employees feel a sense of loyalty and commitment to the organization.

    Moreover, autonomy can lead to better decision-making. When employees are involved in the decision-making process, they are more likely to consider various perspectives and come up with well-rounded solutions. This collaborative approach can lead to better outcomes and a stronger team dynamic.

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    Practical Steps to Implement This Strategy

    So, how can you start implementing this strategy in your organization? Here are a few practical steps:

    1. Communicate the Purpose: Clearly communicate the purpose and objectives of each task. Make sure employees understand the “why” behind their work.
    2. Encourage Autonomy: Give employees the freedom to determine the best way to achieve the goals. Trust them to come up with innovative solutions.
    3. Provide Support: Offer support and guidance when needed, but avoid micromanaging. Let employees take ownership of their work.
    4. Foster a Collaborative Environment: Encourage collaboration and teamwork. Create an environment where employees feel comfortable sharing ideas and taking risks.
    5. Recognize and Reward: Recognize and reward employees for their contributions. Acknowledge their efforts and successes, and celebrate their achievements.
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    Conclusion: Embrace the Change

    In conclusion, making employees know the “why” and letting them come up with the “how” can be a game-changing strategy in leading people and getting results. This approach not only boosts productivity and innovation but also fosters a positive and engaging work environment. By empowering your team and giving them the autonomy to determine the best way to achieve the objectives, you can unlock their full potential and drive your organization towards success.

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    Embrace this approach, and watch as your team thrives and your organization reaches new heights.

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  • Retention | What Drives Us To Stay

    Retention | What Drives Us To Stay

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    Retention. How do companies entice us to stay? Money? Promotion? Recognition? A great work environment? We know this is what they provide to keep us but what do we really want?

    Additionally, making a career change is a big deal. People think about a lot of stuff like job satisfaction, money, and work-life balance before taking the plunge. It’s a big decision that needs serious thinking and soul-searching.

    Loads of folks realize they’re not into their current job anymore or it’s not helping them grow. That’s a big reason why they think about switching careers. Others might be looking at other factors like money or wanting a different lifestyle. Thinking about whether it’s time to move on means weighing the pros and cons and picturing the future you want. It’s not just about work, it’s about feeling good and being happy with life. By really thinking about all these things, you can make smart choices about your future.

    So..what really makes us stay? Have we taken some time to really think about it?

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    Is it money?

    We had a chat about why people leave the company, and the number one reason is money. But, there’s more to it than that. Some folks stick around for reasons other than money.

    Sure, money’s a big deal, but it’s not the only reason people stay at a job. Feeling good at work, chances to grow, having time for yourself, feeling valued, and having a sense of purpose all play a huge part in making people stick around.

    Today’s job scene is about more than just money. People want to belong, work in a supportive place, and make a difference. So, when it comes to keeping people at a job, it’s about more than just cash. It’s about keeping folks happy and loyal.

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    Is it the relationship?

    Focusing on why people leave is one way to look at it, but paying attention to why they stay can be even more valuable. By keeping customers happy and really connecting with them, businesses can set themselves up for big success. Making and keeping strong relationships with customers doesn’t just keep them around, it brings in more business too.

    In leadership, building strong relationships is key. When you have trust and a good bond with your team, clients, and partners, it can help a lot. Connection brings teamwork, new ideas, and long-term partnerships. By putting effort into these lasting relationships, leaders can make a place where people and businesses can grow.

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    I get it, it’s tough feeling like your job isn’t helping you become the person you want to be. It’s hard to leave a company, especially when you’ve got a lot of reasons holding you back. If the folks around you aren’t helping you do what you want to do in life, it shows how important a supportive and encouraging work culture is. Dealing with stress, office drama, and not knowing what’s going on can really take it out of you. It takes guts to know when things aren’t working and to look for something better. Your happiness and growth matter, and I hope thinking about talking to that recruiter brings you to a better and happier place in your career.

    Knowing how to hang on to folks you work with is a big deal for leaders. It’s not just about stopping someone from leaving; it’s a daily thing. It’s about making good friendships in your team, understanding what your team needs, and doing your best to help them out.

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    Responsibility of the leader

    Being a leader isn’t just about giving out tasks and watching over everyone. It’s about understanding that your team are their own people with their own goals and needs. As leaders, we have to use what we’ve got to support and lift up our team. That way, everyone feels good and like they matter, making for a happier and lasting team.

    Yeah, I get what you’re saying about looking for the bigger picture. In today’s fast world, we’re all figuring out what we’re here for and what gets us going. Lots of peeps, like your buddies and mentors, say that money is the key. It’s true that as we get older, we need more money to take care of ourselves, so getting paid right is important.

    But there’s more going on under the surface. Feeling good and being well, especially when it comes to our heads, needs a look too. It’s cool that you get how being part of a good and growing team is essential. You being all about your goals and well-being over just money is ace. Picking a place that matches with your values and helps you grow is the start of an awesome career. Balancing cash and feeling great at work is key.

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    Personal goals

    I know, it’s hard. When you’re the main breadwinner, it’s tough to make a call – should you pick money or how bad your job makes you feel? Don’t worry, though. Life goes on. Sooner or later, you’ll get what you’re after. Keep looking, and things’ll work out. I get that holding up your fam is a big weight when it comes to making big choices. Balancing your good feelings, job joy, and your fam’s well-being is a tough move. But keeping hope and going at it can help you get what you want eventually. Real big props to you for thinking about this tough stuff and believing that working hard and sticking to what’s right gets you where you want to be.

    For leaders and folks in charge, being real and caring is a must. Making up stuff or trying to trick everyone just to make numbers look good isn’t the way to keep a team that’s into what you’re doing. It’s key to get that what gets folks out of bed each day goes beyond just cash. It’s got to be about if making a move lets you go after what you want. Thinking about this stuff is the start of a cool and growing career.

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  • Quiet Firing | A Longstanding Practice with a New Name

    Quiet Firing | A Longstanding Practice with a New Name

    In the ever-evolving workplace, new terms frequently emerge to describe familiar practices. One such term gaining traction is “quiet firing.” While the term may be new, the concept has been around for a long time. This blog explores quiet firing, its effects on employees and employers, and strategies for navigating this subtle yet impactful workplace dynamic.

    What is Quiet Firing?
    Quiet firing is a strategy where employers make an employee’s work environment so uncomfortable that the employee chooses to leave on their own. Unlike traditional firing, which involves direct termination, quiet firing uses indirect methods to encourage an employee to resign. These methods can include reducing responsibilities, excluding the employee from important meetings, assigning impossible tasks, or fostering a generally toxic work environment.

    Why Does Quiet Firing Happen?
    There are several reasons why employers might opt for quiet firing:

    1. Avoiding Legal Issues: Direct termination can lead to legal battles, severance pay, and reputational damage. Quiet firing is less conspicuous and harder to prove.
    2. Cost-Cutting: In times of financial strain, companies may need to reduce their workforce without the costs associated with layoffs or buyouts.
    3. Managing Poor Performance: Employers may use quiet firing to encourage underperforming employees to leave without the confrontation of a formal dismissal.
    4. Cultural Fit: Sometimes, employees may not fit well with the company culture. Instead of addressing these issues directly, employers might use subtle methods to encourage voluntary exits.

    The Impact on Employees
    For employees, being quietly fired can be distressing, leading to:

    1. Mental and Emotional Stress: Feeling undervalued and excluded can take a toll on mental health and self-esteem.
    2. Career Stagnation: Reduced responsibilities and lack of growth opportunities can hinder career progression.
    3. Financial Uncertainty: Leaving a job without another lined up can lead to financial instability.
    4. Professional Reputation: Being subtly pushed out can affect an employee’s professional reputation and future job prospects.

    Recognizing Quiet Firing
    Quiet firing can be hard to spot as the signs are often subtle. Here are some indicators:

    1. Reduced Responsibilities: Responsibilities are taken away without explanation.
    2. Exclusion from Meetings: Being left out of important meetings and decisions.
    3. Lack of Feedback: Requests for feedback and support are ignored.
    4. Unrealistic Expectations: Tasks with unattainable goals or deadlines.
    5. Negative Performance Reviews: Sudden and unjustified negative reviews, especially if they contradict previous feedback.

    How to Navigate Quiet Firing
    If you suspect you are being quietly fired, take these steps to protect yourself:

    1. Document Everything: Keep detailed records of your work, communications, and changes in responsibilities.
    2. Seek Clarification: Have honest conversations with your manager about your role and performance. Seek specific feedback and clear goals.
    3. Improve Your Skills: Take proactive steps to enhance your skills and performance. Enroll in courses or seek mentorship.
    4. Build Your Network: Strengthen your professional network within and outside your company for support and new opportunities.
    5. Explore Other Opportunities: If the situation doesn’t improve, start looking for new job opportunities. Update your resume and leverage your network.

    The Role of Employers
    Quiet firing can have significant negative consequences for employers, including a toxic work environment and high turnover rates. Employers should focus on:

    1. Transparent Communication: Foster a culture of open communication. Address performance issues and provide constructive feedback.
    2. Employee Support: Invest in employee development and provide resources for success.
    3. Fair Performance Management: Use transparent performance management processes. Address performance issues directly and fairly.
    4. Inclusive Culture: Create an inclusive environment where all employees feel valued. Promote respect and collaboration.

    Understanding the Psychology Behind Quiet Firing
    For employers, the indirect approach of quiet firing can stem from discomfort with confrontation. Managers may find it easier to subtly encourage an employee to leave rather than face potential conflict. This avoidance can create a toxic atmosphere where trust and transparency are undermined.

    For employees, the psychological impact can be profound. Ambiguity and lack of direct communication can lead to confusion and self-doubt. This psychological toll can extend beyond the workplace, affecting overall well-being and confidence.

    Building Resilience in the Face of Quiet Firing
    Building resilience is crucial when facing quiet firing. Here are some strategies:

    1. Self-Reflection: Reflect on your strengths, accomplishments, and areas for improvement. Boost your confidence and navigate the situation effectively.
    2. Seek Support: Reach out to trusted friends, family, or mentors for support. A strong support system helps cope with emotional strain.
    3. Focus on Professional Development: Enhance your skills and knowledge. Attend workshops, take courses, or pursue certifications.
    4. Stay Positive: Maintain a positive attitude and focus on job aspects you enjoy. Positivity helps stay motivated and productive.

    Exploring Alternatives
    If quiet firing affects your career, consider these alternatives:

    1. Internal Transfers: If you believe in the company’s mission but are unhappy in your role, explore opportunities for internal transfers.
    2. Freelancing or Consulting: If you have valuable skills, consider freelancing or consulting for more control over your work.
    3. Starting Your Own Business: If you have an entrepreneurial spirit, consider starting your own business. Pursuing your passion can be fulfilling.
    4. Further Education: Consider pursuing advanced degrees or specialized training to enhance career prospects.

    Conclusion
    Quiet firing, though it may seem like a new term, has been a longstanding practice in many workplaces. Recognizing the signs and understanding how to navigate this subtle form of dismissal can help employees protect their careers and well-being. Employers should strive for transparency, fairness, and support to foster a positive work environment. By addressing issues head-on and valuing open communication, both employees and employers can work towards a healthier and more supportive workplace.

    Taking proactive steps to build resilience, seek support, and explore alternatives can turn the experience of quiet firing into a stepping stone for growth. Every challenge is an opportunity in disguise, and with the right mindset and strategies, you can navigate tough workplace situations with grace and strength.

  • Are You A Condescending Leader?

    Are You A Condescending Leader?

    Ever wonder if your boss is testing you by the way he or she asks a question? For example, when you just got off a meeting where your boss asks for something to be sent to him or her by a certain deadline, and then a couple of minutes later (or maybe the day after), will ask you what was the thing he or she is expecting to receive?

    Well, maybe I am just assuming but given the boss’ skillset and place in the organization, I do not think he or she would really ask as if he or she forgot it. In my experience, yeah. This is a test.

    Why do bosses become skeptical of their own team? Just like in the Netflix series “3 Body Problem” (originally a book), when in one scene, the head of the project asks Auggie (one of the lead scientist in the series) was asked to double check Raj’s (the military man) work. And during the same scene, the same boss asked Raj to triple check Auggie’s work.

    Is this about trust? Is it about the leaders observation on how a person in the team works therefore leading to tests and checks?

    Well, for one, I personally do not appreciate it. The more I feel like I am not trusted, the more I do not care and push to get the trust. Doesn’t matter. Once trust is broken, it is near impossible to get back. It will require a long time, a change in personality, in behavior, and building good relationship. If I don’t find it worthy to spend much time doing this, I just don’t care.

    But, let me tell you something…I lead people too. And this trick is not in my sleeves. I don’t test and check my team. I trust them based on what they show me. Then, I make my moves based on that. For example, I had this person in my team before that does not deliver when there are no clear dates when to deliver. We are all guilty of this. Don’t be a hypocrite. So, instead of constantly doing tests or checks, I just gave the person a deadline that he or she can commit to. And voila, work done!

    As me reporting to someone, especially when I am asked by the highest ranking person in the company, I react based on the situation. One time, this person created a chat with me with another person. The other person responded to him almost immediately to all his/her questions. So, I just read it. Didn’t participate in the conversation. Then, the highest ranking person chatted me separately asking if I am seeing the chats in the other room. I said yes and told him/her that I opted not to respond since the other person is already providing answers to the questions. I think he/she was pissed. Or he/she just does not have high EQ. That’s okay.

    For me, it is good to build relationship at work. It makes the work easier to do when you enjoy the company of people you work with. But it is also good to always remember that it is just work. And as long as the work we are paid for are being completed, then it is okay.

    Leaders should not test or check their teams in a way that is like trying to find some fault. Like an entrapment. It is not a very good practice. What does that even say about ourselves? That we are so perfect and we know people make mistakes and we should get that out in the open? Make the person realize that we are the boss and they should be scared of us if we caught a mistake? (Well, maybe it is me just thinking about that)

    Give clear communication. Do not be condescending. This phrase, “That’s what I am saying…” is very condescending. What’s the point of saying that? That you are right, finally the other person understood, and the other person was wrong from the beginning? What made you so perfect in this world? Yeah?

    No side comments. Just focus on what needs to be done, the output, how, any specific format if you have any (but I doubt since most of the time you do not even know what you want to see), and when it is needed. Just that.

    Then shut up.

  • Unhappy Leave | A New Trending Bandaid

    Unhappy Leave | A New Trending Bandaid

    In today’s fast-paced and demanding work environment, a new concept called “unhappy leave” is gaining popularity. This innovative approach allows employees to take time off for emotional distress or mental health reasons. It acknowledges the importance of mental well-being in the workplace. Let’s explore the significance of this and why it’s becoming a trending bandaid for modern work culture.

    What Is Unhappy Leave?

    Unhappy leave is a type of leave where employees can take time off due to emotional distress, mental health issues, or feeling overwhelmed. Unlike traditional sick leave, which typically requires a physical illness, this recognizes the importance of mental health. This trend is growing as more companies understand that a mentally healthy workforce is crucial for productivity and engagement.

    The Rise of Mental Health Awareness

    In recent years, there has been a significant increase in mental health awareness. The COVID-19 pandemic highlighted the importance of mental well-being, as people worldwide faced unprecedented stress, anxiety, and isolation. Remote work blurred the boundaries between professional and personal life, leading to increased burnout and mental exhaustion. As a result, companies began to realize the necessity of supporting their employees’ mental health.

    The Importance of Unhappy Leave

    1. Promotes Mental Health: It provides employees with the time they need to address their mental health without stigma. It encourages self-care and seeking professional help when necessary.
    2. Reduces Burnout: Allowing employees to take time off when they are feeling mentally or emotionally drained helps reduce the risk of burnout. This leads to higher productivity and job satisfaction.
    3. Creates a Supportive Work Environment: Offering unhappy leave sends a strong message that the company values its employees’ well-being. It fosters a supportive and understanding work culture.
    4. Improves Employee Retention: Employees who feel supported by their employer are more likely to stay with the company. It can help retain top talent and reduce turnover rates.

    How to Implement Unhappy Leave

    For companies looking to adopt unhappy leave, here are some steps:

    1. Develop a Clear Policy: Clearly define the rules for unhappy leave, including how to request it, the duration, and any required documentation. Communicate this policy effectively to all employees.
    2. Train Managers and HR Staff: Train managers and HR personnel to recognize signs of mental health struggles and handle leave requests with empathy and discretion.
    3. Normalize Mental Health Conversations: Encourage open discussions about mental health through workshops, seminars, and regular check-ins.
    4. Provide Access to Mental Health Resources: Ensure that employees have access to mental health resources, such as counseling services, mental health days, and wellness programs.

    Challenges and Solutions

    While the concept of unhappy leave is promising, companies may face several challenges:

    1. Stigma: Despite increased awareness, there can still be stigma associated with taking leave for mental health reasons. Companies must work to normalize this and remove any negative perceptions.
    2. Policy Abuse: There is a risk that employees might misuse of it. Clear guidelines and processes, including documentation requirements, can help prevent abuse.
    3. Implementation Costs: Providing this may come with additional costs, especially for smaller companies. However, the long-term benefits of a mentally healthy workforce often outweigh these costs.

    The Future of Unhappy Leave

    The rise of unhappy leave represents a significant shift in how we view work and well-being. It challenges the traditional notion that productivity is solely tied to physical presence and instead recognizes the importance of mental and emotional health. By embracing unhappy leave, companies can create a more supportive, inclusive, and productive work environment.

    In conclusion, unhappy leave is more than just a trending bandaid; it’s a crucial step towards prioritizing employees’ well-being. As more companies adopt this practice, we can look forward to a future where mental health is given the same importance as physical health, leading to happier, healthier, and more engaged workforces.

    Check the link below for more information.

    https://www.forbes.com/sites/bryanrobinson/2024/10/14/effective-solutions-for-the-unhappy-leave-trend

  • Toxic Leadership | Just A Different Take

    Toxic Leadership | Just A Different Take

    Leadership can be a tough job. It’s a balancing act between pushing for results and maintaining a positive environment. While we often hear about the negative impacts of toxic leaders, there are surprising ways they can actually benefit the workplace. Yes, you read that right. Let’s dive into this unexpected perspective.

    A Wake-Up Call for the Team

    When a toxic leader is in charge, the team often feels the pressure. This can be a wake-up call for employees to step up their game. The fear of reprimand or public shaming pushes people to meet deadlines and targets with more urgency. In such an environment, procrastination takes a back seat, and productivity can increase. Employees learn to focus better, knowing the consequences of failure are severe. This kind of pressure, although stressful, can sometimes bring out the best in people.

    The Catalyst for Self-Improvement

    Toxic leaders are often very demanding. They expect the highest standards and are not shy about pointing out flaws. This relentless feedback can act as a catalyst for self-improvement. Employees, eager to avoid criticism, become more detail-oriented and diligent in their work. Over time, this can lead to a culture of continuous improvement. The high expectations set by the toxic leader can push the team to achieve excellence they might not have thought possible.

    Strengthening Team Bonds Through Adversity

    Working under a toxic leader can be tough. However, this shared experience can bring the team closer together. Facing challenges collectively, the team forms a strong bond. They support each other, share coping strategies, and develop a sense of camaraderie. This unity can lead to a more cohesive and supportive team culture. The adversity faced under toxic leadership can foster resilience and a sense of solidarity that benefits the workplace in the long run.

    Learning to Navigate Difficult Situations

    Dealing with a toxic leader teaches valuable skills in managing difficult situations. Employees learn how to communicate effectively, even under pressure. They become adept at reading situations, understanding what triggers the leader’s negative behavior, and finding ways to avoid conflict. These skills are not only useful in the current workplace but are also valuable for personal and professional growth. Employees become more resilient and capable of handling stress and difficult personalities in the future.

    Encouraging Ownership and Responsibility

    Toxic leaders often place the blame on others. This forces employees to take ownership of their work and be extra cautious about their responsibilities. This heightened sense of accountability can lead to better performance and fewer mistakes. When employees know they are directly accountable for their tasks, they tend to be more thorough and meticulous. This sense of responsibility can lead to higher quality work and a more dependable team.

    Driving Innovation Through Constraints

    A toxic work environment is filled with constraints. Resources may be limited, and creativity may be stifled by the leader’s rigid demands. However, these constraints can drive innovation. When employees are pushed to their limits, they often find creative solutions to overcome obstacles. The pressure to perform under a toxic leader can lead to unexpected breakthroughs and innovative ideas. In this way, a challenging environment can spark creativity and out-of-the-box thinking.

    Conclusion: Finding Positives in Negatives

    While toxic leadership is generally harmful, it’s interesting to see how some aspects can inadvertently benefit the workplace. Increased productivity, self-improvement, stronger team bonds, better conflict navigation, higher accountability, and innovation under pressure are potential advantages. However, it’s essential to remember that these benefits come at a significant cost. The stress and negative atmosphere created by toxic leaders can have serious long-term impacts on employee well-being and overall workplace morale.

    Further Reading

    For more insights on leadership and workplace dynamics, check out these articles:

    The world of work is complex, and while toxic leaders can sometimes drive performance, it’s crucial to strive for a balanced, healthy, and positive work environment.

    I hope you found this perspective intriguing! If you have any more topics or need further assistance, feel free to ask.

  • Premortem Approach | What Could Go Wrong

    Premortem Approach | What Could Go Wrong

    Have you ever started a project with high hopes, only to encounter unexpected problems and setbacks along the way? Have you ever wished you could foresee the potential pitfalls and risks before you invest your time, money, and energy into something? If so, you might benefit from using the premortem approach at work.

    The premortem approach is a technique that helps you anticipate and prevent failures before they happen. It involves imagining that your project has already failed, and then brainstorming all the possible reasons why. By doing this, you can identify the weak points and vulnerabilities of your plan, and take corrective actions to avoid or mitigate them.

    The premortem approach is different from the more common postmortem analysis, which is done after a project has ended, to learn from the mistakes and successes. While postmortem analysis is useful for improving future projects, it does not help you prevent the current one from failing. The premortem approach, on the other hand, allows you to be proactive and preemptive, rather than reactive and retrospective.

    Advantages and Disadvantages of the Premortem Approach

    The premortem approach has many advantages for project management and decision making. Some of them are:

    It helps you overcome the optimism bias, which is the tendency to overestimate the chances of success and underestimate the likelihood of failure. By forcing yourself to think of the worst-case scenarios, you can avoid being blindsided by unforeseen challenges and obstacles.

    It helps you foster a growth mindset, which is the belief that you can learn and improve from failures and feedback. By acknowledging the possibility of failure, you can reduce the fear of failure and embrace it as an opportunity to learn and grow.

    It helps you enhance your creativity and innovation, by stimulating your imagination and encouraging you to think of alternative solutions and strategies. By exploring different scenarios and perspectives, you can discover new insights and opportunities that you might have missed otherwise.

    It helps you improve your teamwork and collaboration, by creating a safe and constructive space for sharing ideas and opinions. By inviting everyone to contribute their thoughts and suggestions, you can increase the diversity and quality of input, and foster a culture of trust and openness.

    However, the premortem approach also has some disadvantages and limitations. Some of them are:

    It can trigger a negative mood, which can affect your motivation and performance. By focusing on the potential failures, you might lose sight of the positive aspects and outcomes of your project, and feel discouraged and pessimistic.

    It can induce a self-fulfilling prophecy, which is the phenomenon where your expectations influence your behavior and results. By expecting your project to fail, you might unconsciously sabotage your own efforts and actions, and make the failure more likely to happen.

    It can lead to analysis paralysis, which is the state of being unable to make a decision or take action due to overthinking and overanalyzing. By generating too many possible reasons for failure, you might become overwhelmed and confused, and lose confidence and clarity in your plan.

    It can create a false sense of security, which is the belief that you have prepared for everything and nothing can go wrong. By addressing the potential failures, you might become complacent and overconfident, and overlook or ignore new or emerging risks and threats.

    Benefits and Drawbacks of the Premortem Approach

    The premortem approach can have both benefits and drawbacks for your project and your personal and professional development. Some of them are:

    It can help you save time, money, and resources, by preventing or reducing the costs and consequences of failure. By identifying and avoiding the potential problems and errors, you can improve the efficiency and effectiveness of your project, and achieve your goals faster and easier.

    It can help you increase your credibility and reputation, by demonstrating your foresight and competence. By anticipating and addressing the potential issues and concerns, you can impress your stakeholders and customers, and build trust and loyalty.

    It can help you enhance your skills and knowledge, by challenging and expanding your thinking and learning. By exposing yourself to different scenarios and situations, you can improve your problem-solving and decision-making abilities, and acquire new information and experience.

    It can also stress you out and exhaust you, by exposing you to negative emotions and thoughts. By imagining and dealing with the potential failures, you might experience anxiety, frustration, and disappointment, and feel drained and demoralized.

    It can also limit your options and possibilities, by restricting your vision and mindset. By focusing on the potential failures, you might miss out on the potential successes and opportunities, and settle for less than optimal solutions and outcomes.

    What to Do with the Premortem Approach

    The premortem approach is a powerful and useful technique, but it is not a magic bullet that guarantees success. It is a tool that can help you improve your project and your performance, but it also has its drawbacks and limitations. Therefore, you need to use it wisely and carefully, and balance it with other methods and strategies.

    Here are some tips on how to use the premortem approach effectively:

    Use it as a complement, not a substitute, for other techniques. The premortem approach is not meant to replace or contradict other methods, such as SWOT analysis, risk assessment, or feedback. It is meant to supplement and enhance them, by providing a different angle and perspective.

    Use it as a starting point, not an ending point, for your project. The premortem approach is not meant to be the final word or verdict on your project. It is meant to be the first step or stage, by helping you identify and address the potential failures. You still need to follow up and monitor your project, and adjust and adapt your plan as needed.

    Use it as a group activity, not an individual task, for your team. The premortem approach is not meant to be done alone or in isolation. It is meant to be done with others, by involving and engaging your team members and stakeholders. You can use techniques such as brainstorming, voting, or ranking, to generate and prioritize the possible reasons for failure, and assign roles and responsibilities for taking corrective actions.

    Summary

    The premortem approach is a technique that helps you anticipate and prevent failures before they happen. It involves imagining that your project has already failed, and then brainstorming all the possible reasons why. By doing this, you can identify the weak points and vulnerabilities of your plan, and take corrective actions to avoid or mitigate them.

    The premortem approach has many advantages, such as overcoming the optimism bias, fostering a growth mindset, enhancing your creativity and innovation, and improving your teamwork and collaboration. However, it also has some disadvantages, such as triggering a negative mood, inducing a self-fulfilling prophecy, leading to analysis paralysis, and creating a false sense of security.

    The premortem approach can have both benefits and drawbacks for your project and your personal and professional development. It can help you save time, money, and resources, increase your credibility and reputation, and enhance your skills and knowledge. It can also stress you out and exhaust you, and limit your options and possibilities.

    The premortem approach is a powerful and useful technique, but it is not a magic bullet that guarantees success. It is a tool that can help you improve your project and your performance, but it also has its drawbacks and limitations. Therefore, you need to use it wisely and carefully, and balance it with other methods and strategies.

    If you want to try the premortem approach for your next project, you can follow these steps:

    • Define your project and its objectives and success criteria.
    • Imagine that your project has failed miserably, and write down a brief story of what happened.
    • List all the possible reasons for the failure, and rank them by likelihood and impact.
    • For each reason, come up with a preventive action to avoid it, or a contingency plan to deal with it.
    • Implement the actions and plans, and monitor your project progress and performance.

    The premortem approach can help you avoid or reduce the costs and consequences of failure, and improve the efficiency and effectiveness of your project. It can also help you learn and grow from your mistakes and feedback, and discover new insights and opportunities. So, why not give it a try, and see how it can make a difference for you and your team?

  • How Bad Leaders Ruin Their Followers

    How Bad Leaders Ruin Their Followers

    How Bad Leaders Ruin Their Followers

    Have you ever wondered why some people act in ways that are contrary to their values and beliefs? Why do some people follow leaders who are dishonest, manipulative, and abusive? How do bad leaders influence their followers to become like them?

    In this blog post, we will explore the psychology of leadership and followership, and how the type of person a leader is affects the behavior and personality of their followers. We will also look at some examples of bad leaders and their followers, and how to avoid falling into their traps.

    The Power of Leadership

    Leadership is the ability to influence others to achieve a common goal. Leaders have a significant impact on the lives of their followers, as they shape their attitudes, beliefs, emotions, and actions. Leaders can inspire, motivate, empower, and guide their followers, or they can manipulate, coerce, exploit, and harm them.

    According to the social identity theory of leadership, people tend to identify with groups that share their values and interests, and they look for leaders who represent and enhance their group identity. Leaders who are able to create a strong sense of group identity and loyalty can have a positive impact on their followers’ self-esteem, performance, and well-being.

    However, leaders who are narcissistic, authoritarian, or unethical can also create a strong sense of group identity, but in a negative way. They can use their power to manipulate their followers to conform to their agenda, to suppress dissent and criticism, and to justify their actions. They can also create an us-versus-them mentality, where they demonize and dehumanize their opponents, and encourage their followers to do the same.

    The Psychology of Followership

    Followers are not passive or mindless sheep who blindly follow their leaders. Followers have their own personalities, values, and goals, and they can choose to support or oppose their leaders. However, followers are also influenced by social and psychological factors that can affect their judgment and behavior.

    One of these factors is the need for belonging. Humans are social animals who crave connection and acceptance from others. Followers who feel insecure, lonely, or alienated may seek to belong to a group that provides them with a sense of identity and belonging. They may also seek to please their leaders who offer them recognition and validation.

    Another factor is the need for certainty. Humans are cognitive animals who seek to understand and predict the world around them. Followers who feel confused, anxious, or threatened may seek to reduce their uncertainty by following a leader who provides them with a clear vision and direction. They may also seek to avoid cognitive dissonance, which is the mental discomfort that arises when one’s beliefs or actions are inconsistent with one’s values or expectations.

    A third factor is the need for power. Humans are motivational animals who seek to achieve their goals and aspirations. Followers who feel powerless, frustrated, or oppressed may seek to gain power by following a leader who promises them rewards and opportunities. They may also seek to express their power by following a leader who allows them to vent their anger and aggression.

    Adolf Hitler and the Nazis: Hitler was a charismatic and manipulative leader who exploited the economic and political crisis in Germany after World War I. He created a cult of personality around himself and his ideology of racial supremacy and national glory. He mobilized millions of Germans to follow him and to commit atrocities against Jews, Slavs, Roma, and other minorities. He also led Germany into a devastating war that resulted in millions of deaths and destruction.

    How to Avoid Becoming a Bad Follower

    Being a follower is not a bad thing. In fact, being a good follower is an essential skill for being a good leader. Good followers are not blind or obedient, but rather critical and independent. They support their leaders when they are right, and challenge them when they are wrong. They also have their own values and goals, and they do not compromise them for the sake of their leaders.

    Here are some tips on how to avoid becoming a bad follower:

    Be aware of your own needs and motivations. Do not let your need for belonging, certainty, or power override your rationality and morality. Do not follow a leader who exploits your needs and emotions, but rather one who respects and fulfills them.

    Be informed and educated. Do not rely on a single source of information, but rather seek multiple and diverse sources. Do not believe everything you hear or see, but rather verify and fact-check. Do not follow a leader who misleads and deceives you, but rather one who informs and educates you.

    Be critical and independent. Do not accept everything at face value, but rather question and analyze. Do not conform to the group pressure, but rather think for yourself. Do not follow a leader who manipulates and coerces you, but rather one who empowers and guides you.

    Summary

    The type of person a leader affects the behavior and personality of their followers. We have seen how bad leaders can ruin their followers by using their power to manipulate, exploit, and harm them. We have also seen how to avoid becoming a bad follower by being aware, informed, and critical.

    I hope that this blog post has helped you to understand the psychology of leadership and followership, and how to be a good follower and a good leader. If you liked this blog post, please share it with your friends and family, and leave a comment below. Thank you for reading!