Every one of us is guilty of this – spending more when we earn more. And before we know it, we are back in the same situation as when we started working – no savings or still in debt. How do we overcome it? What can we do? Why do we need to change?
It’s undeniable that the temptation to increase our spending as our income grows can lead to financial instability. Overcoming this pattern requires a shift in mindset and habits. One effective approach is to establish a detailed budget that includes a healthy portion for saving and investing. Additionally, cultivating a mindful spending mentality can help us resist the urge to splurge unnecessarily.
When it comes to what we can do, seeking financial literacy and seeking advice from professionals can be invaluable. The insights and strategies they provide can guide us toward making sound financial decisions that align with our long-term goals.
Changing our spending habits is crucial for achieving financial stability and security. By living within our means and embracing a more frugal approach, we can avoid the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck and instead build a solid foundation for our future. This change is essential because it allows us to break free from the burden of debt and provides the opportunity to create a safety net for unexpected expenses and retirement.
By reevaluating our relationship with money, seeking knowledge and guidance, and committing to a more mindful and intentional approach to spending, we can overcome the detrimental cycle of increasing expenses with higher income, paving the way for a more financially secure future.

Spending more
For those of us who have been experiencing a rise in income, whether it’s due to an annual raise, a promotion, taking on an additional job, or gains from investments, the initial inclination is often to consider purchasing new items. Whether it’s the latest gadgets, trendy apparel, or exotic vacations, the allure of upgrading our lifestyle is undeniable. However, amidst the thrill of these possibilities, it’s crucial to pause and reflect on how these newfound expenses will contribute to our future well-being. Will these acquisitions truly enhance our lives in the long run, or are there alternative ways to allocate these resources that would yield greater benefits for our future selves?
Lifestyle change
I once heard someone say, “I would probably need to change my sport to golf.” He mentioned this to me, along with other work colleagues, after we all had received our annual increase, bonus, and promotions When I heard that, my initial thought was wow! This guy must have received a significant boost in his pay from his promotion. And honestly, I felt a little tinge of envy as I am not at that level. However, as years went by, I felt it did not matter to me.
When we get more money from our income due to a pay raise, bonus, promotion, or any other means, our first instinct is what else could we buy. We are always looking forward to buying better gadgets, eating in restaurants, getting that vacation, and going to places we see beautiful people post on Instagram which seems to be a very happy and luxurious place.
This is not entirely wrong. After all, we are all working to have a better quality of life and enjoy the fruits of our labor. What is wrong with this is when we spend more than what we earn or even up to the limit of our income and we forget our future selves.
Pay ourselves first
We often hear this or read about it. Most of us must have encountered the phrase “live within your means”. As simple as it sounds, it is not very easy for most people to do as we all have varying life situations and priorities. But I hope I could help you who could be struggling to do this.
Paying ourselves first means allotting some amount from our income to savings and if you have progressed even more, to investments or businesses. There are a lot of books that will say to save 10% or 20% or what have you of your income and reach an emergency fund of 3 months to 1 year. All of these are true as I have tried it myself but, it must be done according to our own capabilities and life priorities.
If you think you can save Php1,000 ($20) a month, do it. If it is just Php500 ($10), do it. Then if you can save more, the better. Focus on the doing, not on the amount. That is the starting point.
It is your own life
When you experience an increase in income, it’s important to consider the way you manage and allocate those additional funds. One recommended approach is to prioritize saving a higher portion of your income before making any adjustments to your lifestyle. By doing so, you not only secure a more substantial financial cushion for the future, but you also have the opportunity to break free from the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck. Without this conscious choice to prioritize saving, the familiar pattern of struggling to make ends meet may persist, despite the positive change in income. As such, it is crucial to reevaluate your financial habits and strive to allocate your increased earnings wisely, focusing on both immediate needs and long-term financial security.
It is not a contest of who has a better phone, better clothes, or a better house. It is about sustaining the lifestyle you want without worrying and without going beyond what you can only afford. Every individual has their own preferences and needs when it comes to their lifestyle. It’s essential to focus on personal fulfillment and financial security rather than comparing possessions or material wealth. Striving for a balanced and sustainable lifestyle, within one’s means, contributes to long-term happiness and stability. This mindset allows for the enjoyment of life without unnecessary stress or the burden of exceeding one’s financial limitations. Ultimately, it’s the contentment and peace of mind that come from living within one’s financial capabilities that bring true fulfillment.











